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Why Does Fat=Lazy

shrkntz said: "Anyone who is overweight is more than likely thinking about ways to get the extra calories off and are going to the gym or excercising. To me fat is butter or oil. I don't think fat should mean anything to do with our bodies. No matter what size anyone is, there is always extra calories needed to be burned. People who call others fat are just mirroring what they don't like about themselves."

sabrinakayb said: "What does your hubby think??? Surely he doesn't feel that way. You know I wouldn't worry about what they think, if you ponder too much on them you will lose sight of yourself. You know it is the little changes that make the difference. Look at it this way, make a determination to show them that what they think is so far from the truth. As far as your job goes, well I am a medical instructor at the community college and I can tell you from teaching that it takes alot of effort to do this type of work. It's not just typing, as you very well know you must know medical terminology, and be able to understand what is being dictated (sometimes that's the worse part) and just the fact that you are at home really makes it worse because you have no peace from your duties there. So go look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful, do this everytime that you pass the mirror and in no time you will start to feel just that. NEVER allow someone to steal your self worth. Hope this finds you having a great day. ;)"

sabrinakayb said: "As sad as it may be, I do believe that when you get fit you will be treated differently. Society has a way of thinking that if you are over weight then you are considered not as intelligent, not promotable, etc. But, the truth of the matter is you are these things and people need to wake up. You will have an opprtunity to educate those around you when you get to your fitness goals. Let them know that you are still the same person you were when you started and just because they see you differently, does not mean that you do. This is the perfect chance to show them how wrong they were. Not in a sense of punishment, but the old adage "Never Judge A Book By It's Cover." And maybe in doing so, it will save the next person they encounter who is struggeling with thier weight, to take a more kinder approach. Have a great day, and remember tell yourself how proud you are of the small changes that you have made. And if by chance you fall off the wagon, it's okay just get up and jump right back on. Nothing ventured, nothing lost."

Heather said: "It is easier not to even worry what other people think. Do what you're going to do, and don't worry about the boo-birds. Don't worry about the "when I.." or "what ifs.." Just show everyone what you are made of. You can do this for you.."

Cupcake said: "Hey I'm a transcriptionist too! Pretty neat. Anywho, most people equate fat to lazy because they figure you're lazy for not exercising and remedying the whole fat thing. :mad: So not cool."

helplesscase said: "[QUOTE=Cupcake] most people equate fat to lazy because they figure you're lazy for not exercising and remedying the whole fat thing. :mad: So not cool.[/QUOTE] I agree. I wouldn't worry about their opinions though. As long as you know your worth, thats all that matters."

UniqueMystique said: "I agree, Snap. If people don't like me for who I am....then they can kiss my butt! I like me for me and I'm not going to change just to conform to what they deem as ideal. Be strong and do your own thing! Do what's best for you! Good people will admire you for it and encourage your success. Those that give you a hard time....well....just remember that they must have some issues themselves to be making such snide and lude remarks. Some hidden insecurities. ;) Allow yourself to shine and be proud of yourself and your accomplishments!"

spectrachic311 said: "It's sad that that is what people think, but they do. I know a lot of skinny lazy people and a lot of fat people that work their tails off. It's just how people think sometimes. Stereotypes are everywhere, I guess."

Holly said: "It is too bad they view "fat people" that way. I think folks who have never had a weight issue think it is easy to simply eat less and move more. Some people can simply eat whatever they want, whenever they feel like it and not have any problem with the scale. Also, I think it is quite rude that they have mentioned (or indicated) their feelings about fatness and laziness going hand in hand. I would like to know what thier thin little bodies have been doing all day."

Qian said: "[QUOTE=spectrachic311]It's sad that that is what people think, but they do. I know a lot of skinny lazy people and a lot of fat people that work their tails off. It's just how people think sometimes. Stereotypes are everywhere, I guess.[/QUOTE] I agree, it is stereotypes that are out there. How often do you see overweight people (in the media) that are outgoing, active, fun, and intelligent; compared to overweight people that are lazy, boring, and usually the comic relief. The stereotypes need to be overcome, and people need to realize that overweight does not equal lazy, or anything else the media might think."

whateverhobb said: "My husbands family are all thin, and to them Fat=Lazy in every case. So they see me for something that I am totally not. I do a lot of things around the house, take care of my two daughters and also make sure that dinner is done for my husband. I'm a stay at home mom with an income from my stay at home job!! Transcription. But they act like I do nothing to help my family....It is just frustrating. Fat does NOT equal lazy...."

whateverhobb said: "[QUOTE=Cupcake]Hey I'm a transcriptionist too! Pretty neat. Anywho, most people equate fat to lazy because they figure you're lazy for not exercising and remedying the whole fat thing. :mad: So not cool.[/QUOTE] Cool!! You are a transcriptionist too. I don't want to offend anyone or anything with this post. I just think that it is sad. I don't consider myself a lazy person. I do eat to much and too often but I'm not lazy. Oh well if they don't like me for me then there is no helping them I guess."

whateverhobb said: "My husband does not agree he loves me alot. And he supports me in all things, but it is rather disheartening that people would think that. They see all that I do and it doesn't seem to register with them. I know there are other people out there who are close minded as well. When I do get fit, I wonder if they will treat me different???"